For the first time my answer reflected my heart. This is what I said:
Honey our relationship is like a house. I love my house, I love the furniture in my house, I love where we have built our house, everything about my house is perfect, I will never sell it, trade it or desire another house. However sometimes I want to do something different to our house, perhaps put up a picture or two on the wall. I will love to rearrange the furniture, put up new curtains and add a fresh look. I concluded what I was saying with, the truth is if we didn't do those things to our house, I will still think is amazing and beautiful because we build it and in it I feel safe and protected. In it i feel like a Queen. So right now I don't feel special but I love my house. My hubby replied "wow I get it". We then kissed and hugged and cuddle for a while.
In the past I will have heard that question and guilt my husband into taking me on more dates or buying me more flowers but the truth is although I enjoy those things they don't make our relationship.
Every time and effort we put in building our marriage doesn't stop me from looking at him as the perfect man for me because I am not feeling special sometimes. I love my honey.
This made me think of my relationship with God, I love God so much that even when things don't go my way I will not trade him, leave Him because in Him I feel secure and protected.
I love you God!!!