Today my answer reflected my heart. I said:
Honey our relationship is like a house. I love my house, I love the furniture in my house, I love where we have built our house, everything about my house is perfect, I will never sell it, trade it or desire another house. However sometimes our house maybe missing a picture or two on the wall, rearranging the furniture can be exiting, putting up new drapes can add a new fresh look, but if we didn't do those things to our house, I will still think is amazing and beautiful because we build it and in it I feel safe and protected. In it i feel like a Queen. So right now I don't feel special but I love my house. I kissed him and hugged him and we cuddle for a while.
In the past I will have heard that question and guilt my husband into taking me on more dates or buying me more flowers but the truth is although I enjoy those things they don't make our relationship. Every time and effort we put in building our marriage makes up for a day when he ask me a question like that and he haven't taken me out on a date or watch a girlie movie with me or just do things I love to do. I still look at him as the perfect man for me.
I love you honey.
This also made me think of my relationship with God, I love God so much that even when things don't go my way or I the answer to a prayer that will make me feel special in my relationship with God is no, I will not trade him, leave Him because in Him I feel secure and protected. In Him I am Save!!!